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Marcus is the Italian English pointer of Marcus of Umbria: What an Italian Dog Taught An American Girl about Love fame (read my review of the book here), and a very fearful dog. It’s no wonder considering how deprived she was as a puppy, cooped up in a small pen with barely adequate food and water and little human contact until Justine bucked Italian rural village culture and rescued her. Justine left Italy and brought Marcus home to the United States in the fall of 2007. That’s the end of the book, but it’s not the end of the story. I was dying to know–WHAT HAPPENED NEXT? So last week Justine and I spent about an hour talking about life with Marcus stateside.

Where’s Marcus?

She’s sleeping on the couch.

What was it like for you and Marcus when you first arrived in the United States?

I never planned on a dog. I had no money. I was not in a situation to have a dog. I couldn’t stay in Italy, but I couldn’t leave Marcus in Italy either, and (because of her fear issues) I knew she couldn’t live in urban Brooklyn.

We bounced around the east coast from Boston, to Connecticut, to the Hamptons where I finally found a winter rental. It’s where I wrote the proposal for the book. Marcus was terrified of men. She was afraid of everything. I was hysterical for 8 weeks. I thought I’d have to give her up.

In the acknowledgments at the end of the book you give Niki Wood, an animal behaviorist of Hamptons Dog Training credit for the happy ending to this story. How did you find her?

I Googled “dog trainers Hamptons.” Niki and I talked for an hour. She came over to see Marcus and me. I had no house, a car I couldn’t afford, and a dog flipping out.

I told Niki my story and both of our eyes welled up. She said, “You have to do the work. I’ll take you on.” Niki thought Marcus was a special dog and that we were meant to be together. She worked with us without compensation.

I was totally devoted to the dog.

Were you aware then of the controversies surrounding dog training?

No. But, luckily Niki is a progressive behaviorist; I guess you would call it. No punishment. Only encouragement. But she was stern, like a British nanny.

The Dog world is the most controversial ever! People are committed. It’s sorta ideological. I’m afraid to say something wrong!

What kind of work did you and Marcus do with Niki?

Mostly we did basic training to increase Marcus’ confidence. Not only is Marcus fearful, she’s small. She’s only 35

Justine & Marcus

pounds and pointers are usually 45-55 pounds.

Training was challenging because Marcus isn’t that interested in food. She’s not motivated by food. If I could pull a bird out of my pocket? THAT would motivate her. I’d have all the power in the world!

What’s the most important thing you learned?

Getting an understanding of my dog’s brain. I needed to learn how to think from Marcus’ point of view. When I did, I could more easily empathize with her. We can’t take the assumptions we make about ‘normal’ dogs and map them onto fearful dogs. It doesn’t work.

You know we (people and dogs) are on two totally different planes. It’s our responsibility since we have the greater cognitive capacity to understand our dogs. I see so many people who are disconnected from their dogs.

Justine & Marcus

How are you working with Marcus now?

Now mostly I look out for what might scare her. I look ahead, say, for man carrying a guitar—a Marcus killing device. I’ll cross the street rather than walk into a crowds.

I stay away from (strange) men.

Marcus is afraid of waving flags and pinwheels outside a children’s store. Those things might seem like nothing to us, but from Marcus point of view I can see how they could be scary.

I wouldn’t take her to Times Square.

What tells you that Marcus’ confidence has improved?

We go into places like the Deli where she doesn’t really like it but she does okay.

Marcus likes the doorman who gives her treats, but she hates the lobby. She’ll just always hate the lobby. People are polishing the floor, and stuff like that.

Marcus is not as afraid of men anymore, but she will never love the car. She goes to ground (lies down), but no longer shakes.

Marcus likes to play ball and she’s confident in the full, busy park we go to a lot.

She used to listen to me but now if she gets hold of something she’ll hold on and not let go. She used to drop it immediately.

Friends come over and you wouldn’t know she’s a fearful dog—that’s a huge change!

But, Marcus is never going to be a totally calm animal.

When is Marcus the happiest?

Click on image to see Marcus run

When she’s outside off-leash her brain goes into hunting gear—she shakes off her fear and is very confident.

How does your boyfriend get along with Marcus?

You know the four stages grief? Well my boyfriend is in the first stage of love with Marcus. He’s totally obsessed with her. He’s crazy about her.

Is there anything else?

There are advantages to having a fearful dog—I know we can walk through the park with people picnicking and Marcus won’t run over and steal hamburgers off the grill.

She avoids everyone.

I took a Lab and Marcus to the beach. Marcus was running after a bird and for a moment I couldn’t find the Lab. Then I saw her sitting in the middle of a party of people. Marcus would never do that.

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The Giveaway: One copy of Marcus of Umbria


To enter a drawing for a free copy of Marcus of Umbria: What an Italian Dog Taught an American Girl about Love, compliments of the publisher, leave a comment to this post by Thursday, August 12, 2010, 12pm MDT. I will use a random number generator to select the winner from the first 20 comments!

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I hit ‘send’ with trepidation when I replied to Justine van der Leun‘s literary agent agreeing to review Marcus of Umbria: What an Italian Dog Taught an American Girl about Love. The book was released when we were in Peru so I didn’t know what it was about except for the tantalizing subtitle.

A stack of dog books stares at me nightly when I crawl into bed. I have not cracked any of them because I know the dog dies. “Well, dogs do die,” my friend sagely reminded me. “Yes I know! But, why do people wait until their dogs are dead before writing books about them?” From the time I was a child, my dogs’ deaths—even the ones who lived to a ripe old age—threw me into a tailspin of grief. Reading about beloved dogs dying just brings it up all over again. Except for being with my friends when their pets die, and, of course, my own dogs—I avoid dead dogs.

So I was heartened to find  this lovely picture on the dust jacket of Justine and Marcus, an English pointer, posing on a beach. There are no beaches in Umbria. This looks like a New England beach. I concluded the book was safe to read.

Indeed it was. I finished it in one sitting with one interruption to take Sadie to Boulder Reservoir for a round of swim and fetch. Justine’s engaging and witty writing drew me in and her story held me spellbound. Think about it. A young woman gives up her life in New York City lock, stock, and barrel to move in with an Italian gardner, Emanuele Cruciani—and by fiat, his entire Italian family—that she met on a previous vacation, who lives in a 200 person sheep-farming village in Umbria, and barely speaks English!

Justine introduces us to Marcus, in the first sentence of the book. Marcus is manifesting her (Yes, Marcus is a female.) inner bird dog having just snagged a neighbor’s chicken, an act for which Justine knows Marcus could pay the ultimate price. Then Marcus enticingly disappears for several chapters. Marcus come back!

Stumbling over gender role expectations, notions about family, and language barriers make for comic cross-culture clashes. But, it’s when Justine insists on rescuing Marcus from her dire plight that her sensibilities about animals, and Marcus in particular, crash time and again into those of the Crucianis.

Dogs serve a purpose in relatively poor rural Italy. They’re considered useful for herding or hunting, as Marcus was intended to be. They are not members of the family. They aren’t allowed in the house. They’re thought to be dirty. Their lives are cheap. Given the economic and cultural context, as Justine explains, all that makes some sort of sense.

That said, an impassioned discussion ensues when Justine casually mentions that Marcus should be spayed. The Crucianis are unanimous. “‘Your dog must make love to have a full life!’ Fabio (Emanuele’s father) said. …’Un cane deve fare l’amore,’ the others echoed.”

Despite their puzzlement, bemusement, and sometimes consternation, the Crucianis take Justine under their wing as Justine takes Marcus under hers to nurse and love her back to health.

Marcus of Umbria is a heartfelt, rollicking ride. It’s a dog lover’s book. I have only one minor complaint. I want more Marcus!

Visit on Wednesday when I’ll post about my interview with Justine and you can enter a Giveaway for a copy of Marcus of Umbria.



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#FollowFriday Fab Four comes a day early this week. Sadie and I desperately need some together time hiking and doing a little retail therapy. (Sadie loves retail.) So we’re out and about today and tomorrow. Hopefully I’ll return with lots of pictures.

This week I want to tell you about three favorite oldies and a new blogger on the block. I’ll save the newbie for last.

I started playing on Twitter and blogging in April, 2009 and soon found three smart, compassionate dog-o-philes to follow. So, as you can see, ‘old’ means about 17 months. Here they are:

Fearfuldog’s Blog is written by Debbie Jacobs. You can find her on Twitter @fearfuldogs and on Facebook here. Debbie

Debbie and Sunny

was moved to learn as much as she could about how to help scared dogs not be so scared after adopting a Katrina refugee, a border collie mix she named Sunny. Watch this moving video in which Debbie tells Sunny’s story and learn more about Debbie’s personal story here.

One of the things I enjoy most about Debbie’s blog posts is her ability to engage the reader to empathize with how fearful dog’s feel. Read “Yuck! Do I Have To?” . It’s one of my favorites. If you have a fearful dog or know someone who does, send them to Debbie’s blog and her website which is filled to the brim with sage advice and an award winning e-book! I truly believe Debbie’s reach in helping fearful dogs and their people is huge. Just read “Some Chains that Bind Don’t Hurt.”

Debbie has become a friend and reliable source of support when I need advice and hand-holding with my shy girl, Sadie, as has Barrie, who’s up next.

Barrie’s blog is Fun with Dogs! and she tweets @barrie. Barrie also has a fearful dog, an Australian Cattle Dog named Jelly Bean (aka JB) who takes center stage in many of Barrie’s posts. Barrie is indefatigable in her quest to build JB’s confidence. Take the balance ball, for example. Barrie patiently taught her sweet JB to get ON the ball and shares the accomplishment in a video in the post “New Starting Point.” Barrie is as committed to her own learning as she is to helping JB feel more comfortable in the world, which is one of the reasons I love reading her blog. After attending a workshop with Susan Garrett, Barrie wrote about applying what she had learned in a rollicking post (“Thinking, Thinking, Thinking“) about sibling issues between JB and her other dog, a Jack Russell named Brit. Unfortunately, I can’t link to individual posts, but you can go here and then scroll down to the titles I mentioned. Fixed! The links are live now.

Angela blogs, tweets (@fun4fido), and trains dogs in England. Her blog, Fun4Fido: Clicker training 4 dogs-shaping behavior 1 click @ a time, and facebook page are treasure troves. In addition to Angela’s spot-on posts from “Two Ways a Dog Learns” to “Myths about Clicker Training,” she also takes on the fallacy of doggie dominance. Yes! You won’t want to miss “Debunking the Dominance Myth” and “Dog Trying to Dominate Your World?” written by excellent guest bloggers. Lately I’ve been making frequent visits to her Facebook page where she links to posts like “Trainers with Jackhammers Need Not Apply.”

Last but in no way least is Mary’s Dogs Blog: Fostering hope–one day at a time written by Mary Doane aka @turtlelady81 on Twitter. We’ve been Twitter buddies for a long time. It’s the blog that’s new. Just a couple of weeks ago Mary brought home her first foster dog, Aaron. He’s very fearful and sweet and the inspiration for Mary’s blog. I love, love I tell you, this post: “Ummm…About that harness…” Her voice is pitch perfect. Mary not only writes about the challenges Aaron is facing, which are considerable, but her own as well. In “Helping Him Find His Inner Dog…“Mary finds it necessary to give up her own agenda and get with Aaron’s needs and pacing. That is a difficult lesson–one I’m still learning with Sadie. You can find Mary on Facebook here.

Well, that’s it for this week’s fab four. I hope you explore these blogs and enjoy them. Have a great weekend!

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